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FAMILY IS UNEASY WHEN ONE SISTER DATES OTHER'S EX-LOVER
My sister, "Jane," and I are both in
our mid-50s. Jane has had numerous affairs over the past
several years after her third divorce, and was involved
in an "intimate relationship" with a terrific man, "Will,"
that lasted about three months. Jane broke up with Will
several months after she decided he wasn't what she was
looking for, and she's presently engaged to be married to
a very nice man ("Sam") and seems very happy.
I dated Will
several times before he and Jane became involved. We weren't
intimate at that time, and we started seeing each other
again over the last month. This time we have fallen in love.
My problem is Jane is upset that Will and I are together
and says I have "betrayed" her. She is worried about having
her former and current lovers present at family gatherings,
and our parents are also concerned. They say it's "just
weird." The fact that my sister was intimate with Will doesn't
bother me or Will, but it sure bothers them.
Abby, I have
always been the "good girl" in the family and bowed to their
pressure, but my relationship with Will is more than I could
have ever imagined, and I don't want to give up my future
happiness just to make my sister and my parents more comfortable.
My adult children have all met and approve of Will and our
relationship, but Jane and my parents won't budge. Any suggestions?
-- WANTS WILL IN WALLAWALLA, WASH.
DEAR WANTS WILL: Perhaps it's time to stop being the "good
girl," begin acting like a woman who knows what she wants,
and confront the double standard in your family. If your
sister was "sophisticated" enough to have serial affairs,
and your parents have been so worldly they have turned a
blind eye to it, then they should all be adult enough to
realize that you are entitled to your happiness, too.
this may make for some awkward first few family gatherings,
as grown-ups, everyone should be able to get past it. But
if they can't, you are going to have to decide whether you
want this man, or to be a peoplepleaser for the rest of
EffortlessEnglish AJ Hoge